Someone once asked...

“why do i feel like i can not trust anyone at all when i do trust im let down i trusted my ex i loved him i trusted him he knows i only trusted him the most in life and ive been most vulnerable only to him yet he wanted to end the relationship and yet he tells if u feel low or wanna talk to someone uc an talk to me but its not the same if i go to talk to him anymore i feel empty still everytime this happens when i trust people either the leave or do smthg to prove i cant trust them at all... i dont even trust myself to make proper judgements that i have to feel like i need to rely on someone... what is this life”

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Someone answered with kindness...

there can be a lot of reasons why you don’t trust people. maybe your past experience has not been kind and you have been betrayed by your closest people. about people who trust and they disappoint you everytime. it can be a pattern that you need to analyze more closely. make sure you are not constantly trusting people who does not show any signs of reliability or loyalty. make sure to judge them by your actions instead of words. above all else. i will like to tell you a quote i heard on the internet. “when a bird sits on a brach does it trust the brach to not fall off? or does it trust its wing that in case the brach does fall off he can fly away?”

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Another soul answered...

Hey, I know it's incredibly humbling to realize we trusted the wrong person. I know you are grieving more about your pain rather than the relationship itself. So let us not talk about it. What you need is inner strength. No matter what, life will continue. If you can, think of yourself as nothing more than an observer of the universe. And you are observing your person going through difficult times, being betrayed and feeling pain. And, understand that life will always have yoga and downs. Without those crests and troughs, there is no meaning to life. So just breath. Your mind learns to make better decisions as you see yourself going through the motions of life. A little bit of detachment and a little bit of trust in the universe will really help.

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