“Hi stranger, hope u r doing good
My life was going all well except the people I'm in relationship with.
So, last year at this I cut ties with the person (let's say john) I'm dating and connect with another man (let's say david) in a couple of months and he was too good to me in the relationship, but travelling with him for 6 months I got to know he was just wearing a mask. Super greedy, always thrive for others' attention and validation, kinda fuck boy. And I broke up with him. But the story was the guy I used to date (john) was still in touch with me all along even after cutting ties because he regret cutting ties with me, mind u, he was so good towards me, never cheated, never judged, always allows me to do whatever the fuck I want to. And I kinda like him, never had hatred towards him. He was just lil lazy, apart from that all the things were just in place like always picked me up at my doorstep, fyi its already been 1.5yr I know him. And not even once I went somewhere to meet him. He always shows up in front of door. So after my break up (with david) he asked me on a date again. I said I need sometime as I got out from a relationship recently. And he understood the situation and gave me the space I want.
But I'm kinda person, who would give chance to a new person (if any) rather than the old guy I been with.
So, I met a guy in gym (let's say sam) and he's young than me and in few days, he was crazy about me, so I was like let's date, and take a decision after a couple of week, and the bad thing was all along, I speaking with the John. And before a month, this younger guy (sam), crossed his very limits and said some gruesome things to me, which shattered me, causing me to go for therapy. And now I'm all fine and good.
The older guy (John), asked me to marry him and 2 days earlier, this younger guy(sam) called me and cried like hell, asking me to give one last chance, I would all things for u and marry you in a year.
What should I do?”