Someone once asked...

“hi, my boyfrined left me because he said i was being abusive when i got mad that he followed his ex and refised to unfollow her. before you judge me, folllowing an ex was not the issue. it was the disrespect and the willingness to fight with me for some other girl. i also found that out when we were fighting about some other girl and now we havent talked since 20 days and im blocked and portrayed as the bad person. there have been instances before where hed be mad block me and then come to me a couple days later and now it seems like he doesnt even care and that now he has enough distractions”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Your feelings are completely valid. He is in the wrong, but just think, would you want this to be the father of your kids? Would you want a guy like him to date your daughter? If no, then why should you waste your time on him?

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Another soul answered...

thank you for responding. i believe that people do get blind in love and i was hoping hed return to the same old sweet person he showed me he was and when we used to have fights before this hed come to me but this time we havent talked since a long time which is pretty unusual for him and that makes me think hes just talking to his ex/ the other girl and i didnt matter to him. makes me feel i was used until he had distractions. hurts to know he still blames me for the break up because i got abusive

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