“Almost at a breakup situation with a guy I was with 4 years I'm unable to cope up with my feelings I'm feeling vulnerable I love him so much that thinking about him is killing me everyday I wonder how is he how is he doing but I cannot ask him anymore that he was my loml my first what to do this situation feels so gut wrenching that I cry alot every night day thinking about him”
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Someone answered with kindness...
I would say do it anyway...It is way better than an unanswered what-if that would haunt you for the rest of your life...It is very painful and frustrating to like someone and not be able to tell them that, but do it if you have the confidence that he/she wouldn't use it against you