Someone once asked...

“Hi... I'm a 18 yrs old girl... I've been fat shamed my entire life by everyone including my parents... I feel like a burden to my parents... I'm feel so insecure about my looks and body... Cuz whenever i look around all i see are confident people with bunch of friends while i feel like shit with no friends... I was SA'd by man when i was just in 2nd grade... No one believed me... Not even my parents... I became the bad child in the family who always back answers and shouts and gets angry... But they never see the pain i went through... My own father said that I'd never go near her alone or she'll say i tried to rape her... My own mother said that she wished i was never born... And yet they say they have high expectations on me cuz I'm going to be the first female lawyer in my entire family... But No one sees my pain... My fear... My grief... My insecurities... No one sees nothing... Sometimes i wish i was dead ... Sometimes i wish i was never born... Please... Help me... Or else i might hurt myself... Or worse... Kill my self.... Please... Help me.... I feel like I'm drowning...”

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Someone answered with kindness...

hello there stranger, you dont know me I dont know u and I hope this message goes deep to your heart. I will be very honest with u and this message is all you need. You will be fine. Trust me like geniunely trust me it will be fine I just know it. My heart goes out to you, I believe you and the people who loves you or will love you will aswell. for now i need u to know that you will not be hurting yourself or anyone with your words. or even physically, you will not lose your standards bc people who go thru stuff often end up ruining their future asw over low standards, i started off light hearted now I want you to know these people don't deserve u. whatever they say is BULLSHIT. pure bullshit. a newborn baby doesnt just growup to be a bad person, its the parents who are responsible. Can you do me a favour, I am spending my time telling you all this you have to do 2 simple things for me. Love yourself and Detachment is your solution for everything just trust me. i believe in you so much u got this. start off easily, affirm the things you want to feel. affirm that u feel pretty affirm that you're a good person. I want you to be gentle to yourself and people around you. Your parents are insecure as shit, their life is so miserable they hate themselves so much that they r projecting all of this onto you. It has nothing to do with you. trust me no need for revenge they will never ever be happy in life but let me tell you this, you can but only if u want to, u have to take steps do it small start small but just do it. you owe it to yourself. you are worthy of it and you can rise above it all. because you deserve to love yourself. now the second thing, Detachment, that's pretty self explanatory. focus on what you want to do, try to look for hobbies and goals and ignore their words. COMPLETELY ignore what they r saying they r clearly not happy in their lives thats why they want you to be unhappy asw. You will not kill yourself. You will be okay and I know it. You will be happy. and its the truth idc no matter how much u think otherwise it IS the truth. It will sound cliché but really? weight? is that their biggest problem?? r they that lifeless? weight comes and goes who gives a fuck its 2026 no one cares about weight anymore but if you want to not bc of this but if YOU want to then u should start losing weight later on after learning self love. See no one is caring abt u rn, no one is loving u rn, so why not love yourself like lets just try to love ourselves we only got ourself yk? since everyone hates me why cant i love myself for once? Dettach from them completely, the dreams they force onto you, their expectations and everything that is not YOU. STOP caring abt what they think. You have a stranger writing sm for you rn and thats all you need, a little push towards the good. AND YOU HAVE IT RN SO LETS USE IT !!!!!! I respect u so much i believe in you so much, you are very strong okay you got thisssssvfhdbpjdovsovsisgiscgiscigscigsgis JOURNEY TOWARDS SUCCESSSS!!

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Another soul answered...

Hyy don't hurt urself darling don't worry everyone in this world is not perfect bruhh and u learned a lesson through all ur life and sometimes ur own people can hurt u even ur mother ,father pls remember this u have urself babe u trust urself and u must love urself and love ur own company bruh don't be silly gurlll by hurting u and u must put efforts on urself and keep working hard and if people are judging u let them judge bruhh .okiii just work hard live ur life happily that's all if age will doesn't even come bruh don't hurt urself sweetheart love u By akshitha heheee 😁

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