“Heyy stranger !! I'm 17 y/o I joined my uni three months ago .and i want to improve myself overall so bad but i don't know how .and even if I want to i procastinate so much .At this point it feels numb too much .Due to some breakup of friendships in past .i can't make friends.but I'm doing all the step I can .like talking with new people and all .even got 2 friends but I just feel like what if they also lie or hurt me again .Mostly i feel like i don't even want people anymore .I just want to improve myself and live my life in peace .which is weird cuz I always thought of having a friend where I can depend on ,talk ,grow with and enjoy .Any tips on self growth ?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
First, step of growth is to not depend on anyone to grow with