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“everything sucks, my parents are abusive with me, im 19 yet i get hit by my dad (im a girl), everyone is against me in my home cuz they think i am jealous of my sibling but i was never, yet my mom goes against me and pressurizes my dad to take strict action against me and i get hit while all i did was raise my voice, how can i stay with them after all this im just a student and i dont earn at all pls help me”

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I think have an honest reflection about whether you want to stay with them. If you just want to stay because you think you should or because they’re family, that’s not a good enough reason. If they don’t treat you with human decency, what point is there to stay? If you are being physically abused please try to document the abuse with photos, videos, voice recordings, time stamps etc so you’re prepared just in case you get put in real, life threatening danger. I recommend looking at domestic abuse housing near your school and maybe packing all essentials to leave your home if you reach your snapping point. Please talk to a counsellor or police or just someone, it’s not your fault and you shouldn’t be abused as just a basic human right. Best of luck.

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