Someone once asked...

“Everyone out there is doing too much in their lives while I rot in bed.. I can't even go outside.. I yearn for sunlight.. along with this unhealthy life I love someone who loves someone else.. and the problem is I can't even say it cz he tells me about his crush how he felt ignored from her and why she cannot understand his love while he's telling me about his crush I die from inside every single night.. why can't be me?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

I think you should change you're perspective about love. I know its hard to get over our feelings . But if that person is happy with someone else you have to let it go. Its sad but we cant do anything if its not in our fate. Love is not just a person there's always plenty of love around you , you just have to look deep enough. You can't make others love you if you dont love yourself:) so get up do everything that makes you happy and value yourself more , be the sunlight others will need.

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Another soul answered...

Listen...ive been a victim of one sided love with my male bsf too and i totally understand what it feels like. But you have to get up and get strong and realise cause a man is not worth ruining ur life over. Life is so much more than a relationship. If it hurts, try to distance urself from him to get over him quicker. Then find hobbies, clubs and activites to do. Work on yourself, ur body and ur mind. FInd new people to talk to. Pack your schedule in such a way that you dont get time to miss him. Of course, its gonna be hard but believe me one day you will get over him and your gonna be happy again<3

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Another soul answered...

yoooo gurlll !!!!!!!!!!! i understand how it hurtss, i am in a same situation like urs, i know it hurtss too muchhh, just enjoy every moment of ur life , dont rot in ur bed, goo outtt, comee on! goo outt!!! everyone has their turn . u find urs! hope u get better soon, so do i😢

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Another soul answered...

Heyyy... Don't take too much stress gurl I hope u r fine.. u should hang out with your close ones for a while and take time out for yourself! Ik fate can be cruel sometimes but this isn't your fault ryt... It's the situation and we can't control our feelings either ik.. but choose life and start to heal to move on... Don't question your worth asking why not me?.. cuz I bet there's someone out there better for you who would choose you and love you wholeheartedly.. someone special whom u won't have beg to choose you...We can't get everything we want in life ryt... So sometimes we jst have to accept and go on...the LOML doesn't always stand for Love of my life.. sometimes its the "lesson of my life too".

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