Someone once asked...

“Am i lazy or in depression for a long time i can't do anything productive that can be competitive like studying or anything like that and whenever i have exams i do it at tge last minute and get shitty grades . Idk how to say whats goin in my mind but i have a pretty bad relationship with my parents when i was young i got constantly compared and judged everything that i liked or wanted was seen as ummature”

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Someone answered with kindness...

I think it's bcz of childhood trauma and the fear of inferiority...where we can't focus on one thing our mind constantly just think about what if..? My advice is just, "stop right there!" No one's gonna understand you if you don't open up and when you realize you don't need anyone here and at the same time you need someone too? I love the art of disappearance it helped me a lot plus I get to know what I want to do in life. Yeah, I want someone to be at my side too so, that's the profession I'm pursuing 🩷✨ Wish you well, stranger! :)

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Another soul answered...

No you are not lazy, you are just trying to survive. This is defense mechanism whenever we have had enough of everything our bodies turn into state of saving energy. And you no it is not your fault to be like that. Your parents may not know your worth but you know what? You need to acknowledge your self worth so don't be soo harsh on your self you've a very long life ahead so do whatever you want to do if you're a student then study as hard as you can but also gove some time to your hobbies and interests try to practice relaxing exercise and meditate for 5 minutes daily you'll start noticing change in yourself and do not over think about what your parents or other think or say about you just be consistent with whatever you do. If they are comparing you with others, what it is going to change for you??? Exactly nothing..... you are unique in your own way with your own capabilities and interests. Study hard, build yourself, get a job and become a good person be kind to others this will be enough for a happy and satisfied life.

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