“After I was cheated by my ex bf I find it difficult to trust my current bf tho he didn't really do anything I keep getting insecure and jealous about everything
Like his insta blend suggests reels of girls not like it's the only thing yet seeing that makes me upset i asked him he's like such reels are suggested to boys they're just in my feed it's not like I'm engaging with them
But yet idk I just find it very difficult I'm feeling as tho these things are draining me I'm constantly checking his following seeing girls there makes me extremely upset also bcoz in the past he had reels of girls saved on being confronted he removed them all...I was thinking of asking his insta password but idk that makes me feel a bit weird idk what to do I'm so much troubled constantly thinking that he might be cheating on me or even checking out other girls”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Hey girl, it's absolutely ok to face such an issue. Sometimes when you have been hurt before- it takes time to go around the hurt and trust other people. Even though your current bf might not be like the previous one but you still need time and that's all right. I think that you should talk to him- explain how your past relationship has produced a doubt in your mind. And trust me, if he's any different, he'll comfort you, understand and move forward to better the relationship but if he just overreacts when you try to explain or tries to blame you, then girl- LEAVE.