“Actually im loving someone from my workspace so deeply and i confessed them 1 month ago he said he is not ready for the relationship. Then he wants to continue a journey when eventually he can understands me so i said ok we continued talking but after fews days he is kinda ghosting me and last Friday was his last day in office. He made me feel like im nothing to him and also he is not affected by the absence of me but im grieving here becoz i cant see him tmwr he literally sit besides me…. He left the office with a piece of my heart… and we planned to go out on Tuesday and i promised him after that meet ill walk away and won’t contact him… he said just okay… Im completely lost and numb…. Im going to write a journal like if i want to speak with him ill write it down… i love him so so much and it hurts”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Honestly babe , i suggest you to go meet and tell him how much you love him for the last time . Just do it and then leave , i can feel he's not into you because if he needed time he could have said clearly , ghosting and not contacting clearly signifies he's not affected by your presence or absence . BABE YOU DESERVE THE LOVE WHICH YOU ARE TRYING TO GIVE . YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU RIGHT