我上大学了。我来自一个贫困的城市，在大学，一切都是过去的不能比较的，同时我比较内向，请问我怎么适应它呢

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Don't adapt, let adaptation happen instead.

Be yourself in the process so you don't feel violated. The changes you undergo would feel natural then. Give it time, give it room. Don't let anxiety rule the contact.

The difference you hold is to enrich the environment you entered, not to be normalized. You are precious even if they didn't realize it yet.

“我上大学了。我来自一个贫困的城市，在大学，一切都是过去的不能比较的，同时我比较内向，请问我怎么适应它呢”