Someone once asked...

如何在5分钟睡满8个小时的觉,如何用10分钟速记800个知识点,如何在一天之内让自己的IQ超过爱因斯坦。。。

Someone answered with kindness...

Ever tried to say NO? If the other side is intelligent, it will ask "then what?". And you can figure it out together. If the other side is not intelligent, it is the one that actually needs to face your question (not you). And it will eventually get to the same answer: NO. Then you will be both on the same page. Progress begins with a NO.