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“Youu love someone but she has a boyfriend what can you do?? And she talks you daily and share all the things like secrets and talks daily late nightt!!”

Update · 2026-11-13

Yess i think you are right but I think about her all day if she not call me or msg me I feel anxious about whyy she didn't do call or msg. She says I am her close friend but it's Okyy i think you are saying right Thank you for your advice 🫂💗 Is any goated advice for me???

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Well, I think the first thing you should do is ask yourself whether she's actually showing romantic interest in you or whether you're interpreting her friendliness as something more because you already have feelings for her. And if you're genuinely confused about her intentions, you can ask her directly. Why does she enjoy talking to you so much? Does she see you as just a close friend, or is there something more? And most importantly, is she aware that you have feelings for her? But here's something I want you to understand. Just because a girl shares her secrets with you or talks to you late at night doesn't necessarily mean she has romantic feelings for you. She might genuinely trust you and feel comfortable opening up to you. However, if your conversations involve flirting, romantic expectations, or things she deliberately hides from her boyfriend, then that's a different situation. And I want you to think about something. Imagine you're in a relationship, and your girlfriend has a male friend who secretly has feelings for her. Would you be comfortable if their conversations started crossing romantic boundaries? Now, there could be different explanations for her behavior. Maybe she genuinely likes you, maybe she enjoys the attention you give her, or maybe she simply considers you a really good friend and doesn't realize that you're developing feelings for her. But whatever the reason, don't assume that her emotional closeness means she's available romantically. My advice? Be honest about your feelings, respect the fact that she's already in a relationship, and pay attention to how she responds. If she only sees you as a friend, you need to decide whether you can genuinely maintain that friendship without constantly hoping for something more. And one thing I'd like to ask you is, **does she actually flirt with you or give you romantic hints, or is it just the late-night conversations and personal secrets that make you feel she might like you?**

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