“"Yesterday, my best friend and I slept together. We’ve done this many times in the past; for quite a while, we even had a relationship that was, for all practical purposes, that of a couple—though not officially. On many occasions—yesterday included—we’ve talked about the fact that we have considered, and still consider, making our relationship official. The problem? He has a girlfriend, and as it happens, she’s a friend of mine. I feel terrible, but I’ve been in love with him for a long time. I had never slept with him while he was with his girlfriend; we put an end to this dynamic as soon as they started dating. His girlfriend is aware that he and I have slept together many times and knows what we used to be to each other. It’s very difficult for me because I don’t want to be a bad person, and I know that what I’ve done isn’t right. But it’s also very hard to distance myself from him, because I love him. Our dynamic has always been strange and confusing, and I no longer know what to do about this—or about this guilt."”
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obviously what u did is sooo wrong.... and u know that but can u think from a that girls pov?..... first of all u should think about your friend he slept with you and then made a girlfriend and now he is not even loyal to her.... how can someone love that type of men.... he is just a piece of trash.... girl... ik its very difficult but you have to make your self respect bigger than your feelings..... he didnt value your feelings and not even of his own girlfriend... now you have to cut ties with him and your friend ... and then he will run after you and manipulate you but you already gave him many chances .... so take a break and askk yourself which inner need of your is fullfilling by him? .... he is not special... you made him special , your brain made him special.... talk to a psychologist ..... u have to heal yourself.... its not about him.... its your some inner wound...... world is so big... socialise more and make new friends ...... i hope it helps dear