yall is it even possible to maintain a long distance friendship? I stg I don't know what to do, I fear they'll get bored of me or think that I'm ignorant or sth, but whenever I wanna text them I feel like I'm annoying (cuz they're from different country and idk maybe that's why though - I don't know when they consider someone as a bit desperate cuz I freakin don't use snapchat and idk how to behave there like ik this sounds so stupid but tell m if u know - if they for example send me a snap then do I have ot send it back every time I open it? and how often? how many is too much? we're 16 both btw) anyway bc lol idk why I started talking abt snapchat PLS give me any advice how to maintain it

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yall is it even possible to maintain a long distance friendship? I stg I don't know what to do, I fear they'll get bored of me or think that I'm ignorant or sth, but whenever I wanna text them I feel like I'm annoying (cuz they're from different country and idk maybe that's why though - I don't know when they consider someone as a bit desperate cuz I freakin don't use snapchat and idk how to behave there like ik this sounds so stupid but tell m  if u know - if they for example send me a snap then do I have ot send it back every time I open it? and how often? how many is too much? we're 16 both btw) anyway bc lol idk why I started talking abt snapchat PLS give me any advice how to maintain it

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Yes! It is possible to maintain long distance friendship!! And i promise you're not annoying them it might feel like but you're not. as someone who felt or sometimes still feels the same way i try to remember the moments that i have with my friends that proves that they do like me and I'm not a burden because actions speaks louder than words and if that doesn't help even straight up asking that person does because it's better to face the truth than suffer in silence and also the snapchat thing i totally get it! Ugh it's so annoying i just try to if the other person sends me a snap i try to ask maybe a question related to the picture and then send them a picture of my own like a little life update and personally what i find too much is like constant updates like updates every breathing second if they are doing literally anything besides that nothing really is "too much" you're fine you don't have to worry about it