Someone once asked...

“Why is my best not enough? If I get good grades, do my work, be kind and respectful and quiet and perfect, why do my parents still favor my brother who hits me, makes fun of my weight, calls me an ugly monster and constantly hurts me? If I do everything perfect, and I'm not good enough, what is?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Hey there friend. I need you to know firstly that you are loved. You are not alone and you don't have to deal with this alone. I'll be fr, what you're going through, how your brother is treating you is abuse. It's objectively not right, nobody deserves to be treated that way no matter who are what they are or what they've done. You are a beautiful, beautiful person. You are someone who tries their very best. I know deep down you know that too. And you deserve much better than this. I highly encourage you to reach out to a trusted friend regarding this. If possible, a trusted adult. Perhaps a teacher or a guidance counselor at your school? You have the right to find safety within your home and within your people. Always exercise kindness towards yourself. Do what you can to protect yourself from harm. And dont do this alone. Reach out to people to help you. And I see you have it in you. If you didn't, you wouldnt have sent this message here. I'm more than happy to be here to offer some words of encouragement, even as a stranger and even if only for one moment. But yes to end on a bit serious note though, please really do seek help you can regarding your situation. I still stand by the fact that it is a harmful one for you, and I believe you deserve a safer, more loving environment. Godspeed, beautiful friend.

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Another soul answered...

Don't Care Abt it, jst do ur best and try to enjoy ur life to the maximum

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Another soul answered...

What you think is right, don’t care what your parents think. Your opinion matters, not theirs

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Another soul answered...

do not compare to ur brother u have to stay chill and cool hahah am i the worst monk ever?

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