Why is it so hard holding on to people when you finally feel loved. Everytime someone gets close and we actually start understanding each other and loving -in terms of friendship - each other I want to stop talking to them and leave. Like never ever have to talk to them again bc u think they might see the person they were never supposed to see…

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Its called being avoidant....may or may not ve connections with your childhood ....times where ur close ppl (mum/dad/relatives) ve had betrayed ur trust or cared less about you
And in ur adult life u feel the need to escape the moment u feel very loved cz u might start depending on em or cuz they might see the vulnerable version u had to shut down b4

Let ppl in....tell them if ur goin thru hard times...tell them u cried..and try talking and find sm1 u cn maybe depend on whenever wherever life gets tuff