Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
I'm an atheist, so I don't believe there's a God sitting somewhere deciding who deserves pain and who deserves happiness. But even if you do believe in God, I don't think suffering automatically means you're hated by Him. That's a conclusion you're drawing from your pain. Sometimes life is unfair. Sometimes there's no satisfying reason for what happens to us. But “this happened to me” and “therefore I must be hated” are two very different statements. Please don't use your suffering as evidence against your own worth.
✦ This sign has found its fate.