Someone once asked...

“Why do we want to feel good while troubled instead of trying to solve our troubles? Why is society promoting this behavior? Maybe because society is experiencing the very same behavior? Will answers focus on solutions? Or will they focus of relief?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

because its easier to feel good than face a problem, making ourselves feel something positive to distract ourselves from actual tasks and problems at hand, but over time I think its numbed us from the actual state of the world and reality.

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Another soul answered...

I think it's because of the lack of willpower to do anything. Especially now in modern age we tend to choose comfort over control of our lives.

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Another soul answered...

Both. Calm down. Take a deep breath.

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Another soul answered...

whoa that deeps

Want to find this sign again?

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