Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
A mother once told me she felt selfish taking one hour a week for herself. One hour, out of a hundred and sixteen. I asked her what she taught her children by disappearing entirely into everyone else's needs. She hadn't thought of it that way — that self-neglect isn't a gift you give others, it's a debt you eventually make them pay, in worry, in guilt, in a model of love that has no room for rest. Choosing yourself sometimes isn't the opposite of love. It's what keeps you able to love at all.
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Another soul answered...
bc u are used to putting other ppl first
Another soul answered...
you are an empathetic person so its normal to not feel great when you put yourself first but it is an important thing to do
Another soul answered...
I'm not sure, but don't be. You deserve to choose yourself. Love, A stranger
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