Someone once asked...
Someone answered with kindness...
Watch a room sometime — really watch it. Everyone's checking their phone, worrying about what they said five minutes ago, running through their own to-do list. Almost no one is thinking about you. I know that's supposed to be comforting, but I get why it sometimes isn't — being invisible can sting just as much as being judged. Maybe the real question isn't "are they judging me," but "why does their opinion carry so much weight in the first place." That's a longer conversation. But it starts with noticing: the courtroom in your head has an audience of one.
✦ This sign has found its fate.
Wandering voices — answers no one has read yet
Another soul answered...
Because everyone is judging everyone... but not always. Just remember to not judge yourself harshly, because this world is cruel and there is no one that can better look out for you, than you.
Another soul answered...
I feel the same. People can be very judgmental, but people who are like this are typically very unhappy with themselves, and they judge others because they feel like they are being judged as well.
Another soul answered...
because every one is judging you!