“When i see her i want to comfort her, save her. She moves and talks graciously. She takes good care of her looks. When she's around something inside me reaonates deeply. But i know she often struggles with herself. But she doesn't show that. She finds comfort and control in taking care of how she looks and how people see her. Very soft and caring, always grateful. But she does not dare to reach out by herself. She likes being thought of and checing in but is very uneasy with deeper questions, so she tries to escape or avoid them. But i want to understand her deeper layers. As long as she keeps the mystery, i keep on wanting to know who she really is.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
That is not really a question, is it? But having been there, 25 years ago, with that person right now next to me in a bed, I can only say that you just need to be there without pushing when she doesn't want it. In my case that took 5 years of patience and sometimes pain. And it was well worth it.