what do you do when you find out the guy who was basically your everything when you were 15 is now with one of your bestfriends ( two years after. i fell apart with all of them but he hated her literally and now).
hating them isn't how i want it to be,
it hurts so much specially when it is I who had to suffer all along just because i miss them. it had to be me in the photos and not her and

Question

what do you do when you find out the guy who was basically your everything when you were 15 is now with one of your bestfriends ( two years after. i fell apart with all of them but he hated her literally and now). 
hating them isn't how i want it to be, 
it hurts so much specially when it is I who had to suffer all along just because i miss them. it had to be me in the photos and not her and

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I mean that is very very sad that your bsf is with a person who was your everything and I dont wanna sound mean or anything but how can she be your bsf if she saw all of that you went through when your relationship with that person ended and still be with that person and how can that person be with your bsf when that person knows she is your bsf and I think you should talk to them tell them ... Maybe at least her and you can continue being her friend but still maybe be a little distant with them and give yourself time , space to handle everything I hope everything works in you favour