“What do you do if your friend(?) secretly took photos of you and your other friends and posted them on the internet and someone responded to it and said something racist about you and she laughed at it and shared it in your group chat and are trying to make your friends believe that she had no bad intentions when posting it but she knows that one of your other friends is insecure about her appearances and she still posted it??? (ik this is a long one but genuinely i don't know what to do)”

Another soul answered...

I think age is important here. If you're in your teens or younger thats sort of the prime age for people to make dumb insensitive "jokes" to fit in. I was even like that once, and I certainly didn't mean anything by them and they were okay within the context of my friends group but looking back I could see anyone outside of that understanding could definitely get hurt by it. If you brought up your issues with them and they didn't apologize and instead tried to brush it off as no big deal it just sort of appears to me an immature and a lack of accountability for their actions. At the end of the day you pick what your morals are and if the people around you share them.

Another soul answered...

not your friend. at all. with ai, it's super dangerous. that friend coud have gotten bad mental health from it and maybe sh or worse. do not be friends with her. just, you and the affected friend and any others, don't talk to her. if she's like 'what's wrong' tell her sternly what she did wasn't okay and affected you and you will end the friendship, then leave. 99 percent chance she wills tart to rage. take care of urself and surround urself with loving people cause everyone deserves love

Another soul answered...

GET OUTTA THERE!!! if your other friends get weird vibes from it too, unanimously vote her off like survivor. she knew what she did. some people just dont respect boundaries