“What do I do?
1½ years ago, some random person in my church (who is basically 2, 3 or 4 years older than me) asked if I have a bf(I was 16 that time, studying +2. And I said 'yes I have a bf' eventhough i didn't because I was not interested in a relationship and I didn't wanted to lead him on. Then days passed and I started noticing him, started thinking about him, basically obsessed with him!. I wished if he messages me once again. And 1 year later about 4 months ago, he messaged me again. I had moved from there to a different place not so far, but far. He told me that he has a crush on me. And I told him that I am not interested in a relationship. He don't know that I have a crush on him. But I don't think I want a relationship either. However, he is still messaging me, sending me reels.... ms everything. I wanted to like stop leading him on by note replying. He said that I am not giving him any hope and please don't ignore him'.... Idk what to do? Am I a bad person?🥲🥹”
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Someone answered with kindness...
No ur not gurl but yk u have to follow your heart you'll see wherever it leads u just accept it cuz following your own heart is the best thing and best of luck 😋😅