well so my bf said he wants entrepreneurial energy and said i dont have that, he said i agree with everything he says cause i love him (but i do oppose when my opinion is diff and the thing is i wish good for both of us and i do try to convince him if i feel he could be doing good diff way, the thing is he likes to do whathe wants and he barely listens to anyone, and sometimes to me,) so tell me guys, how can i have that energy more or how can i build that or solve this

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

I think by entrepreneurial energy he's basically saying you dont have strong boundaries or strong opinions since you end up agreeing on a lot of things he says and are okay with it. Maybe he wants more participation on decision making from ur side but that is also just ur style its because you love him and trust his decisions enough that is why u dont say anything until it really doesnt match ur thought, and tbh it is kinda weird the way he said he wants more entrepreneurial energy from you which he knows ur not like that. Im assuming ur the peacemaker of the relationship since sometimes he doesnt listen to you or anyone i think that is what balances it out if ur opinions were just as strong on many things nd hes not the listener type then it will be costing both of you alot many arguments. I think he needs to understand that you are the way u are and cant change according to as he wants and id suggets u to maintain ur boundaries with him on what ur okay to take from him nd what is an absolute no. Id suggest u to talk it out with him and explain him things from ur side while both of u are in a stable mind.