Well so im a 19y/o guy, and for the last 8 months i am talking to this another guy who is 18y/o. In the starting of the conversation i used to ghost him so much and was not invested at all but slowly and gradually i started being very comfortable to him like its a feeling i got from his side. Now i think started falling for him, i have never opened my heart towards anybody. He used to flirt and look after me even when he knew i like guys.
Now i feel attached to him so much that seeing him with anybody genuinely pisses me off so much and whenever he post and tell anything about other girl i feel weird. I tired my best to be avoidant towards him because i knew i would get attached to him but it didnt help.
I dont know what to do because this feeling is kinda killing me soo much i feel depressed and feels like an unofficial breakup(?)

Question

Well so im a 19y/o guy, and for the last 8 months i am talking to this another guy who is 18y/o. In the starting of the conversation i used to ghost him so much and was not invested at all but slowly and gradually i started being very comfortable to him like its a feeling i got from his side. Now i think started falling for him, i have never opened my heart towards anybody. He used to flirt and look after me even when he knew i like guys. 
Now i feel attached to him so much that seeing him with anybody genuinely pisses me off so much and whenever he post and tell anything about other girl i feel weird. I tired my best to be avoidant towards him because i knew i would get attached to him but it didnt help.
I dont know what to do because this feeling is kinda killing me soo much i feel depressed and feels like an unofficial breakup(?)

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Brooooo i can feel your pain....look it's not your fault....now you have 2 options you can talk to him if he clearly say to you that he is not gay and not interested in you then you should stop talking to him and leave him behind and move on i know it's difficult i have been on your place but you know you have to do it bcz like this you keep hurting yourself being in this situation so my advice talk to him or just leave him behind or try to find some other guys of your vibe and try to talk to them to overcome this trauma...i am rooting for you..i hope this helps..we are here listening your voice