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“Well i wanna glow up yet i dont have the skin care products i want and how could i save up when my family give me money? Im highschool student i jave to get good grades i have good mark but im lazy to study how could i fix that?and how could i build consistency? There are many things i wanna try like learning spanish building another hobbies but doomscrolling and shit got me how can i???”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Hey heyy i dont know who u r but i know this feeling well.u want to do everything but u end up doing nothing at all then I feel guilty about it and the loop just continues.its not an advice or anything but put down ur phone for a bit ik it feels hard ik ur gonna keep on grabbing it but try it keep it away sit with ur thoughts and u don't have to start doing everything one day. U can wake up, study, build a new skill but none of that matters if u can't wake up tmrw and do it all again. Start little with tiny habits.keep building them as u go.i don't know if this helped u in any way prolly not ig.slow down, listen to what ur mind have to say. You gotta figure out ur own way none else can do that for you.

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