We were friends for 3 years before we started dating, and not a single day went by without us checking on each other. Over time, our bond grew into something more, and eventually, we confessed our feelings and started dating.

For 6 months, we were deeply connected. We called each other every day, shared everything, and made each other feel loved despite the distance. She became the person I felt safest with, someone I could open up to emotionally in ways I hadn't in years.

But two months ago, the pressure of job hunting and other external problems started affecting her. She became distant, asked for a break, and eventually ended things, saying I deserved someone more stable.

I never had a problem giving her time or space to figure things out. What hurts is that she decided to sacrifice our relationship without giving us a chance to work through it together. She gave me happiness, love, and stability, and I wish she could have understood that she didn't have to be okay all the time for me to stay.i belive she is the women that could stand anything.I am proud of her for facing all this by herself I am proud of the women she is and I am proud of the women she want to become.

I still don't understand why we couldn't face this phase together. Don't we deserve a second chance?

Question

We were friends for 3 years before we started dating, and not a single day went by without us checking on each other. Over time, our bond grew into something more, and eventually, we confessed our feelings and started dating.

For 6 months, we were deeply connected. We called each other every day, shared everything, and made each other feel loved despite the distance. She became the person I felt safest with, someone I could open up to emotionally in ways I hadn't in years.

But two months ago, the pressure of job hunting and other external problems started affecting her. She became distant, asked for a break, and eventually ended things, saying I deserved someone more stable.

I never had a problem giving her time or space to figure things out. What hurts is that she decided to sacrifice our relationship without giving us a chance to work through it together. She gave me happiness, love, and stability, and I wish she could have understood that she didn't have to be okay all the time for me to stay.i belive she is the women that could stand anything.I am proud of her for facing all this by herself I am proud of the women she is and I am proud of the women she want to become.

I still don't understand why we couldn't face this phase together. Don't we deserve a second chance?

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Look... life takes a turn when u least expect it. She must be a really great partner if she made u feel safe around urself. Its just the pressure if job hunting and all that thats prolly making her reconsider the relationship.
Try taking her out somewhere quite just the two of u like a park or the beach... at nighttime cuz its peaceful and let her speak her feelings out.
Keep things steady and strike up conversations until u reach the question why do u wanna end things. If she says cuz she is not good enough... Look her in her eyes and hud her tight and tell her u r the best thing I have ever had. U r the best. U dont been to be any better. We can figure things out. We have our whole life ahead of us.

She must be really stressed abt the job thingy and must be thinking she needs to do better which might be casung her to look down on herself. Just know that for a relationship to work... both must understand each other.