“Umm lately I'm talking to a guy who is 3-4 years older than me I'm 17 rrn it's like we both are talking and all but he makes the Convo hot and cold sometimes he replies quickly and sometimes replies late and we both know that we like each other but for some reason he isn't confessing and this is bothering me because I can't talk to a ordinary guy I a date to marry kinda”
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Someone answered with kindness...
Honestly if he likes you frl frl i don’t think he will be giving you mixed signals in the first place.
trust me when i say this- a man who is sure about you will never leave you confused about his feelings.
So rn if he is acting that way then its time to mirror him back. do the same tactic with him. reply fast sometimes and reply super late just like how he does and see if he notices and points it out or not.