Um Hii i have a huge crush on my prof of uni he was my former sem teacher now he just dont teach us his departement changed but i can watch him i just don't love anyone else but him i even match his patterns of classes just to get a glimpse of him he is may be in his 30s and i'm 20 but idc i dont even know he is married or not but a rumor about him is famous or everybody know him as he doesn't look at anyone not even at his students he looked down always while walking and even in the class but whenver i am infront of him and nobody else we always got an eyecontact i dont know what is it idk how to overcome and what will happen but i want to confess anyways as i dont want any regrets Thankyou

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

It’s okay to confess, but think a few things through first
Ask yourself what you want from it... If you only want to lift the weight off your heart, that’s one thing... If you’re hoping for a reply or a relationship, keep your expectations realistic
The student-teacher factor... He’s no longer your teacher, but he’s still part of the same university
You don’t know if he’s married... If he is, a confession will only create awkwardness It’s wise to find out first, without asking around in a way that draws attention
Eye contact doesn’t necessarily mean interest... It could be coincidence, or he may just be being polite... Try not to build too many hopes on it.
If you do confess, keep it short, respectful, and pressure-free. Don’t ask for anything.... Just share how you feel and say you don’t expect a reply.... A written message or email is safer than saying it in person, which can be awkward for both of you...
About regret You can regret not speaking, but you can also regret speaking too soon Take time to decide rather than rushing