Someone once asked...

“Um hi so i have been single my whole life and recently a guy texted me, flirted with me and hes words felt genuine. But whenever i asked any personal questions about him he was hesitated a little still I didn't care much. First i didn't cared enough but then I started to fall a little and gave him my attention. Then he would literally disappear suddenly but then come back at night and use to talk to me like he couldn't even live without me. He told me his main account was banned and this was him burner but i found his main one day on a confession post. So i confronted him about it and he said it was his and his friends "shit posting" account and since his id was banned he wanted to use this. But i checked and the username was never changed. So like he lied to me. Now what should i do? I think ive fallen for him already. Should i confront him again or just stop talking?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Don't give him more attention. You know what They don't care. They don't care how much we love them They only care when we stop caring So disapper from him And you'll see the difference

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Another soul answered...

It's his trauma response. I think in childhood he was embarassed for showing his true nature or his ugly side so he started to keep it to himself because he thinks if someone will see his ugly side then he will be laughed and embraced. There could be another reason but that's what I think. If my suspicious comes true then ask yourself. Are you willing to accept his ugly side or his habits?, will you embrace him if he showed his clumsy side ? You should not bring this up because it might feel like direct attack on his sensitive topic so learn by his behaviour, don't get surprised by it and be comfortable to him like it didn't bother you. He will eventually start relaxing and show his all colours to you.☺️

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Another soul answered...

I feel like he's probably just playing around with you. Him avoiding personal questions and that made up story about the main ID is a major red flag. He might just be using you. Confronting hik again might lead to another lie so its better to stay away in my opinion before you get too attached.