Toh I met a guy he proposed me n all and fir usne 6 to 7 months baad mujhe chir diya and uske baad he get to another girl I was crying for a whole year for him he did text me n all asks me abt my self and uss time I was unknown ki wo mujhe chorke kisi or ke paas gya h so later on Jan 2026 he get back with me and 1 month phle mujhe pta chla ki aesa aesa seen tha wo wo 2024 m mujhe chorke khi or gya toh there was a lot of drama and ab usne uss ldki ko chor diya hai wo mujhe bolra hai ki usne mujhe 2024 mai jana nhi and to be very honest mene sch m kbhi apni feelings ussey nhi batayi kuch express hi nbi kiya toh usse lga ki mujhe ek basic attraction h and jb usne jane ki v baat ki toh mene roka nhi then fur jb wo mujhe kbhi kbhi. 2025 mai text krta tb he realised ki usne mujhe jana nhi and wo mujhe bhul nhi pa rha tha toh 2026 m mere satg wps aaya wo or tb v wo uss ldki let's call her A se baat kr rha tha he was in contact jb mujhe sb pta chla maine A se baat ki toh pira drama hua pr wo ab A ke sath nhi h usne mujhe bola ki mai usse dheere dheere chor rha tha kyuki mai janta hu aachanak se chorne ka pain wo mujhe bolra tha ki wo ldki mujhe blackmail krti thi poison ka pic bhejti thi bolti thi baat nhi kroge toh kha lungi ab uska kehna h ki usse mujhse sach m pyar hogya or tbh mujhe uske actions se lgra h like kvi kbi mai soch m par jati hu ki isse sach m hai kya wo bht try kr rha h meri jo uss A se baat hui usne mujbe yhi btaya ki ye tnhari baat krta tha mujhse aache se baat tk nhi krta tha tb uss ldke ne mujhe btaya ki mai tmhe nhi bhul pa rha tha mujhse glti hui 2024 m maine baat krna jruri nhi smjha wo apne he feelings ko nhi smjh paya and haan usne uss ldki ko kiss kiya hai hug kiya h n all pr bola mere aane ke baad nhi kiya but tb v wo usse I luv u wale text bhejta usse validation deta tha ki nhi uska mere sath kuch nhi h mene usse ispe bola toh usne bola ki mai bht irritate hojata tha tb ye krta tha nhi toh usnr mere or uske 2hr ke vc ki v pic usse bheji.

Pls koi isme meri help krdo I am very confused pta nhi at somewhere in my heart mujhe uski feelings genuine lgri h somebody suggest me something ki kese mai uska test lu ya aese m uske sath wps jau ya na look I really do love him or ab m uske call nhi receive krti block kr deti hu toh wo bechain ho jata hai ghr ke aage pohoch jata h mere kvi library ke paas aajata hai even wo jldi rota nhi h 2024 se jaan rhi hu usse 2 baar hi rote dekha tha mene or 3rd time toh mere liye jb wo apni feelings express kr rha tha pls somebody help me I am very confused

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Toh I met a guy he proposed me n all and fir usne 6 to 7 months baad mujhe chir diya and uske baad he get to another girl I was crying for a whole year for him he did text me n all asks me abt my self and uss time I was unknown ki wo mujhe chorke kisi or ke paas gya h so later on Jan 2026 he get back with me and 1 month phle mujhe pta chla ki aesa aesa seen tha wo wo 2024 m mujhe chorke khi or gya toh there was a lot of drama and ab usne uss ldki ko chor diya hai wo mujhe bolra hai ki usne mujhe 2024 mai jana nhi and to be very honest mene sch m kbhi apni feelings ussey nhi batayi kuch express hi nbi kiya toh usse lga ki mujhe ek basic attraction h and jb usne jane ki v baat ki toh mene roka nhi then fur jb wo mujhe kbhi kbhi. 2025 mai text krta tb he realised ki usne mujhe jana nhi and wo mujhe bhul nhi pa rha tha toh 2026 m mere satg wps aaya wo or tb v wo uss ldki let's call her A se baat kr rha tha he was in contact jb mujhe sb pta chla maine A se baat ki toh pira drama hua pr wo ab A ke sath nhi h usne mujhe bola ki mai usse dheere dheere chor rha tha kyuki mai janta hu aachanak se chorne ka pain wo mujhe bolra tha ki wo ldki mujhe blackmail krti thi poison ka pic bhejti thi bolti thi baat nhi kroge toh kha lungi ab uska kehna h ki usse mujhse sach m pyar hogya or tbh mujhe uske actions se lgra h like kvi kbi mai soch m par jati hu ki isse sach m hai kya wo bht try kr rha h meri jo uss A se baat hui usne mujbe yhi btaya ki ye tnhari baat krta tha mujhse aache se baat tk nhi krta tha tb uss ldke ne mujhe btaya ki mai tmhe nhi bhul pa rha tha mujhse glti hui 2024 m maine baat krna jruri nhi smjha wo apne he feelings ko nhi smjh paya and haan usne uss ldki ko kiss kiya hai hug kiya h n all pr bola mere aane ke baad nhi kiya but tb v wo usse I luv u wale text bhejta usse validation deta tha ki nhi uska mere sath kuch nhi h mene usse ispe bola toh usne bola ki mai bht irritate hojata tha tb ye krta tha nhi toh usnr mere or uske 2hr ke vc ki v pic usse bheji.

Pls koi isme meri help krdo I am very confused pta nhi at somewhere in my heart mujhe uski feelings genuine lgri h somebody suggest me something ki kese mai uska test lu ya aese m uske sath wps jau ya na look I really do love him or ab m uske call nhi receive krti block kr deti hu toh wo bechain ho jata hai ghr ke aage pohoch jata h mere kvi library ke paas aajata hai even wo jldi rota nhi h 2024 se jaan rhi hu usse 2 baar hi rote dekha tha mene or 3rd time toh mere liye jb wo apni feelings express kr rha tha pls somebody help me I am very confused

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

If someone leaves you once, you should never allow them back into your life. You may love him or she may not, but the important thing is to never allow anyone to be your friend, best friend, lover, or Facebook friend once they've left you. If they want to return, you'll find someone else. you may treat the wound but the scar remains...