“Today it was weird and kinda sad and also happy but more lonely. So , i met my friend after a long time and resent she got into a relationship and in the past she was in a very toxic relationship and now she is getting better and I am genuinely happy for her . So as we met after a long time we had a lot to talk about and in the middle of the conversation her phone rang and she smiled wide at the screen and I knew it was her boyfriend and being honest I am happy for her but I saw myself like in past like we're talking about 1 to 2 years ago I was in a relationship and i used to get really excited when I used to get my bf's call like i used to act like my friend act now when she gets her bf's call and then she talked to him for a long while and then after a hour or so she showed me a text sent from her bf and it was a very intimate and affectionate text and I was like i went blank nd it was like i also used to get these tests and i used to adore it . Like i miss the moments NOT THE PERSON and i don't wanna go back to it , i had thought I had moved on but now i m not sure and everything is uncertain because I also don't wanna get into another relationship . So i don't know what to do”
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Someone answered with kindness...
hey
first u need to calm down
you not like the person anymore but it does not mean u should also stop liking the moments u had with him
it is human like to miss the small intimate moments u hv with the ppl ur close with and it is completely alright
u will find the same love if not something better in another person and maybe that person is the best companion u can have in your life they will be there for every step of ur life
u just need the patience and love within you to find the right person and its completely alright to not want to get into another relationship
enjoy life as it is and cherish the best moments