Someone once asked...

“To give you the real context behind last week—my phrasing was blunt, and you didn't deserve the brunt of it. The truth is, right after college when I tried staying in touch, people kept flaking and putting things on the back burner. That’s when I decided to stop waiting around, go off the radar, and take complete ownership of my life. When you operate in solitude for two years, you stop expecting anyone to show up—so when you reached out, my gut reaction was to keep my distance rather than let anyone in. It was never about diminishing your gesture; I've just grown genuinely comfortable in my own lane. Just wanted to clear the air so there's no bad blood between us”

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Someone answered with kindness...

You are on a great way ....already sometimes being in our own is enough. The perspectives of life says it too . We come alone we go alone but I hope you find the people who loves you who cherishes your presence and I can sense you are an amazing ....

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