“There's this girl I'm realizing I like a lot, but apparently she doesn't feel the same way. I know cause we have common friends and they've been helping me out. This has happened in a matter of a week or so. Since these friends were trying to see whether she liked me back or not, they subtly posed the matter. Turns out, she's now kicked me out of her secondary IG account and won't accept my follow requests. What hurts me isn't the fact that she doesn't like me back, its just that I thought we were friends, and such a dumb thing that didn't even evolve into anything might have caused for her to be mad at me, although I don't even know if that's the case, cause my friends haven't even had an opportunity to ask her. Anyways, I just wanted to talk bout this with someone, but we've also got our midterms coming and I didn't want to bother anyone with my problems. What do you think I should do, cause my friends tell me that if I keep going after her shell end up seeing how Im a great guy and allat”
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Someone answered with kindness...
i genuinely dont think thats true. If she doesnt feel the same way about you and is avoiding you, its a sign to stay away. She isnt going to start liking you out of nowehere. Maybe if you distance yourself, focus on your own stuff and excel, she might see potential in you but not if you blindly follow her. With that being said, please take care of yourself. Things like this are completely normal and it would be easy to say there are more fish in thesea. But i suggest focus on yourself, if your time comes take it