“there's this from my uni. we have been talking for more than 3 months. we met 2 times when 1st started talking. the 1st one was initiated by him then 2nd one was by me. and then we didn't met for like 2 months. recently we we're planning to meet. I told him he never meets me so he initiated on meeting me but I was busy that week so I initiated that we meet today. I told him to text me after his exam. but he didn't then I went to the library and saw him with another girl. then I left. later on he texted me asking where I was I told I saw him but seemed busy so I didn't bother. he asked why didn't I texted him blah blah he was hanging out with his friends. then I said no prob hangout with them he said he left already I said ok. and then he didn't replied for 6 hours and later on started sending reels.
now for the past 3 months he has been telling me about his ex, gives me daily random updates about his day, send me tons of reels. also he said he takes the talking stage very seriously. in the talking stage he just talk and give daily updates blah blah. and mentioned that he was in a talking stage with his ex for 5 months then he decided to take her on a date.
honestly I don't know where I stand. are we in a talking stage? or just friends?
bc if I liked me even a bit he would've wanted to meet me right? I wanted to meet him multiple times and threw hints of us meeting but he never seemed interested in meeting me even on the campus let alone outside the campus”