There's a childhood friend (a boy) of mine who just suddenly came back in my life after years n I feel like I'm into him as he flirts with me n even told me to wait for him n stuff. But it's all privately. But he acts all lovey dovey with my best friend (a girl) , publicly. I don't know what to do . It's just ruining everything.

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

The simplest thing is to do the same. Find another boy yourself and get all lovey dovey with him. If he tells you to stay away or is jealous then directly tell him that you love him, if he says he can't return your feelings you have your clear answer and if he accepts then it is the best. The point to have a boy other than him in your life is to show him that you also have options and are not stuck on him completely. This will force him to make a decision quickly and not keep you waiting. It is the fastest and most effective thing to do in this situation.