“There is a repeating pattern of problem with my boyfriend. He is good at efforts at caring little things. But he has no money, so he can't gift me moreover he got caught at home so they are being suspicious so he can't make handmade gifts . During long distance, his recharge was over. his parents not giving money to recharge. Using wifi he sends message, watches youtube video to study. Can't he send a small effort like voice message or song note ? I repeatedly said him to put continuous efforts. I can understand his situation but still I feel like begging for efforts. There are many things he can do without money or internet.”
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Someone answered with kindness...
I get you honestly, one of the people I liked shifted to another place and he liked me as well but I thought maybe we could do smth but his family was also strict n he literally never made time for me, now we r normal friends but frankly speaking long distance never works esp if there r so many problems.. I don't want you to give up on it but if it's taking up all your time thinking about him then maybe you need to rethink some things and if he really loves you he can make the slightest effort atleast but I think he's just tired and used to his parents being stirct and has given up.. maybe you should talk to him about it.