Someone once asked...

“There is a girl in my life and I have a crush on her. I confessed to her, but she told me that she doesn't want to be in a relationship and isn't ready right now because she can't move on from her past relationship, blah blah. I know that she indirectly rejected me, but she still wants to be my friend. I still have feelings for her and can't let go because I promised her that I'd be her gym partner, and I can't break my promise. However, I sometimes feel like she gives me hints just to keep me close, and I don't want that—I want her completely, or not at all. What should I do?”

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Someone answered with kindness...

This is going to sound harsh but she is keeping you around.....she just wants all the benefits from you like....she literally knows that you have romantic feelings for her so she is using you.......so do what you can with that......i know it sound very hurtfull but i feel like thats the thing......the hints she gives is to keep your hope up so you wont leave the second you stop being usefull she will ignore you completely ......i dont want you to be rude to her or anything but just say no to her one time when she asks for a favor and you will understand the truth.....boy you deserve better...have some self respect.

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Another soul answered...

so she has rejected you inderictly , then like dont wait for her to change her mind rather take her answer as no only . and about those hints , maybe she is giving mixed signals or maybe you are just interpreting her freindly behaviour as something more bc you still have crush on her. Either way you need to clarify rather than assuming .if being around her is giving you hope and hurting you , its okay to step back. nothing is grater than your own mental health . you can care about someone and still not be in a position where you are waiting to be chosen . you deserve someone who is as sure about you as you are about her and about gym promise , keep your promise if you can manage yourself and your feeling ; dont sacrifice your own peace just because you promised someone. Hope this helps ( there maybe gramatical mistake , sorry about that)

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Another soul answered...

Ahhh i get it just relax chill take it sloww be a friend ik we can't be a friends we can just pretend that's it ik but get to know her better at the same time respect her choice ofc have a boundary and be supportive and above all of these be urself be who ur

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