The point is, me and my gf, who is my ex now. Yeah, we broke up. Sooo, I had a crush on her back in 2022, and we started talking in 2023. There were soo many ups and downs, and we decided to be in a relationship around Dec 2025. And yeah, she proposed because I couldn't. I was just scared... So, like, we were soo good and had a great time until she joined college. Then she started getting busy with college and travelling. After coming home, she'd do household chores. She is genuinely busy, tbh, I know that. But she doesn't give me proper time, and I truly don't like that. Still, I don't want to lose her. We had a fight, and she decided to break up. First, I disagreed and convinced her to stay, but she didn't want to because of her past relationship as well. The same things happened there: she couldn't give proper time, blah blah, and it ended in a breakup. We broke up like about a week ago. She also doesn't want to let go, but yeah, she doesn't want to find a solution while staying in the relationship. And yaaa, I miss her. At the time of the breakup, I convinced her to meet one last time, like a final date, and she agreed. But I still haven't received any acknowledgement, and maybe I won't in the future either because she's toooo busy with all this college stuff. But I do miss talking to her, and this much time spent loving her can't just fade away soo easily. I do need advice, but not the usual "focus on your life" blah blah. No, I don't want that.

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Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

Ukw there are 24 hours in a day and jisko time nikalna hota hai vo nikal leta hai i get it life gets busy but its easy to take out atleast 20 mins if u want to maintain that bond to be honest she didnt wanna do that like vo nikal leti bro time if she really loved u so i would say that just dont talk to her for some time like give her and urself space from this relationship