“The guy ive been talking to I like, alot. Hes asked me on a date a week ago but we havent got around to making it happen and weve been talking a while and we had a date previous with a gap between. Idk im just nervous cause I want to like someone and fancy them and enjoy their company and I hope this time this is that! But I feel silly for wanting that does that make sense?”
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Someone answered with kindness...
whatever you do don't superimpose your needs over the reality of him. it's easy to see what you need in him, just be real and see what happens.