srry this is gonna prolly be long

so I have this friend, lets call her Jane, and shes been my friend since 5th grade(prolly one of my first best friend). like I literally baptized her this year (yay).

but lately shes been sorta pushing me out ig, like my family took her to church every sunday and wednesday(we have a youth thing), and now when i ask she just says shes busy
what rlly made me annoyed was when this Sunday, my mom comes up to me and says, "hey I think I just saw Jane over there" and I'm like no, she would tell me if she came to church right? no I walk by her and doesn't so much as look at me. so text her and ask if shes here, and she says, "oh yea so and so is getting baptized,"
so I just reply back with "wow" bc I don't know what to say and ik its ok to grow apart from people but sometimes I look at her and think, 'thats the person I baptized?'
another example of her not telling me something is when we normally walk home together, so I go look by her locker and shes not there so I'm like ok, maybe shes outside. shes not. for context my schools volleyball team is doing supprising well, the school is taking a fanbus the game that is 2 hours away. so I go outside and its just me and random people. I text her and she if shes in the school (no reply until like 30minutes later). she says "yea but I cant walk"
she never said anything about this, like its ok, u can tell me things I wont get mad.
I just highkey don't know what to do

Question

srry this is gonna prolly be long

so I have this friend, lets call her Jane, and shes been my friend since 5th grade(prolly one of my first best friend).  like I literally baptized her this year (yay).

but lately shes been sorta pushing me out ig, like my family took her to church every sunday and wednesday(we have a youth thing), and now when i ask she just says shes busy 
what rlly made me annoyed was when this Sunday,  my mom comes up to me and says, "hey I think I just saw Jane over there" and  I'm like no, she would tell me if she came to church right? no I walk by her and doesn't so much as look at me. so text her and ask if shes here, and she says, "oh yea so and so is getting baptized," 
so I just reply back with "wow" bc I don't know what to say and ik its ok to grow apart from people but sometimes I look at her and think, 'thats the person I baptized?'
another example of her not telling me something is when we normally walk home together, so I go look by her locker and shes not there so I'm like ok, maybe shes outside. shes not. for context my schools volleyball team is doing supprising well, the school is taking a fanbus the game that is 2 hours away. so I go outside and its just me and random people. I text her and she if shes in the school (no reply until like 30minutes later). she says "yea but I cant walk"
she never said anything about this, like its ok, u can tell me things I wont get mad.
I just highkey don't know what to do

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

feelings not getting reciprocated, you are caring /being involved with her too much than you should(i get it emotional connection is there since childhood) but still try to understand that people change ,their priorities and life change and so their social circle