soooo, basically i joined a new school and before joining i went there for uniform trials and i met one of my old classmates who was also gonna join so we got in touch again. we started texting on insta and i was rlly happy cuz i wouldnt be completely alone in the new school. so fast forward, she didnt come for the first 3 days and then when she did i was rlly happy introduced her to some of the friends i had already made. so in my mind i thought we were gonna be a close duo in the class and we kinda are. but the thing is, she was able to join a friend group which had some old stdents some new students and it was a mixed friend group like w ppl form other sections. obv im super happy for her but i feel like shes wayyy closer to them than me and i feel left out? its been 5 months, and i dont have a solid friend group yet. i mean, i talk to everyone but i dont have what she has. she has a nice big friend group, she got a bf and everything. and i really wanted to join that friendgrp but too late now. another reaosn i wish i was in that grp is bc the guy i kinda like in there and he close to my friend. ughhhh and its not even like she doesnt talk to at all anymore we do talk a lot its just i feel jealous of her. she didnt do anything wrong with me either i just am jealous. and that friend grp theyre kinda the cool kids.
also, this new school is so draining. like, the teachers are amazing icl, but the students. everyone is so two faced and idk whos actually nice and whos not. its jsut kinda all over the place. compared to ymy old school, where i had a solid friendgrp, suddenly coming to a situation like this is rlly hard ngl. the moment i think "oh this person is ctually nice" they do smth not so nice. im jus waiting to leave this school atp

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soooo, basically i joined a new school and before joining i went there for uniform trials and i met one of my old classmates who was also gonna join so we got in touch again. we started texting on insta and i was rlly happy cuz i wouldnt be completely alone in the new school. so fast forward, she didnt come for the first 3 days and then when she did i was rlly happy introduced her to some of the friends i had already made. so in my mind i thought we were gonna be a close duo in the class and we kinda are. but the thing is, she was able to join a friend group which had some old stdents some new students and it was a mixed friend group like w ppl form other sections. obv im super happy for her but i feel like shes wayyy closer to them than me and i feel left out? its been 5 months, and i dont have a solid friend group yet. i mean, i talk to everyone but i dont have what she has. she has a nice big friend group, she got a bf and everything. and i really wanted to join that friendgrp but too late now. another reaosn i wish i was in that grp is bc the guy i kinda like in there and he close to my friend. ughhhh and its not even like she doesnt talk to at all anymore we do talk a lot its just i feel jealous of her. she didnt do anything wrong with me either i just am jealous. and that friend grp theyre kinda the cool kids. 
also, this new school is so draining. like, the teachers are amazing icl, but the students. everyone is so two faced and idk whos actually nice and whos not. its jsut kinda all over the place. compared to ymy old school, where i had a solid friendgrp, suddenly coming to a situation like this is rlly hard ngl. the moment i think "oh this person is ctually nice" they do smth not so nice. im jus waiting to leave this school atp

Anonymous Practitioner · Accepted Answer

If they seem two faced, youre better off witjoit them. But if they seem like a nice frnd grp, ask your frnd to introduce you!