“Sooo the thing is , I have my clg frnds they good not gonna lie but as I continue to speak to them and they become close to me and expect me to do things according to their liking and till date most ppl out there have only objectified me like you are not speaking to so n so person , not doing this and other sort of thing . It is affecting me mentally , I know I shld stop speaking to them as its my last sem in the clg I wanna spend good time and end things on good note . Wat shld I do??
Do I speak or stop or speak for now and cmplty stop speaking once I get out of my clg and I even thought of doing internship with them but things are not good as they were before to do that now”
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Hi.
I’d suggest stop caring. It is your last semester, you should enjoy it the way YOU want to enjoy it not feed into what others want you to do. People are selfish and you should be too.
BUT always remember connections are also very important if you’re still in college or after it. If you think someone is a great connection but wants you to do whatever they want you to, maintain a distance from them and not cut them out altogether. I hope this helps :)