“Soo its bout my love life a guy from school, i started talking with him in 2024 but he stopped talking out of nowhere and removed me from everywhere cut to 2026 he reconnected and these he was more serious but then now he did same and I was left attached and it hurts like hell now somehow i moved on and now I have a crush on my senior but idk if he is single or not so it feels really unlucky I feel i always ended up one sided”

Another soul answered...

Ahh i kinda relate with the unlucky part and all i can say is stick to your principles if you have them. See I am a guy who is 20 and so far I havent had a single relationship or any kind of romantic moment. I am told that i look very good and that i am a nice person. That also contributes to my dilemma you know? When i joined my university and made new friends, I got asked about my past relationships and when i told them i havent had any, they start acting as if i am lying. But honestly i find it very unusual for me to find someone attractive. So far in my life ive only met 2 who i thought was interesting enough to make an effort. Also if i do like someone or find em interesting i just go and talk to them. i dont feel any problem in doing so. But honestly with my luck, the two girls ive talked to and poured my heart out and genuinely cared for, the first played me, TWICE, that too the same exact way. Used me as a rebound and got back together with her toxic(as per her) ex. The second one was in university and she initially told me she was talking to someone already when i approached her and I said cool and left. But she came back into my life saying she was interested and texted me pretty warmly and did not agree to my date invitations and things happened and eventually i stopped texting her. But then after 4 months she came back into my life and started talking MORE intensely than ever and made a date plan herself but two months ago asked me a weird thing and ghosted me. I got attached so much that my whole mood was dependent on her. Which is my fault ik but still. Its been 3 months now and i cant fully move on. I always wondered what i did wrong? But i also know that it is not my fault at all. I have always tried my best and i think i will continue to do so. I believe that i am not desperate enough to stick to someone who does not respect me. I have developed self respect through my experiences. I am going to wait till i find someone who loves me the same way i do. And even though i am aware of all this, there are some days where i feel very lonely and unlucky or wonder if theres somehting wrong with me. but ye lowkey turned your question into my venting session. am truly sorry about that. And about your senior, try talking to him and gauge out how he is around you, and then give hints and communicate clearly. I feel it is kinda easier to know if a guy likes u or not than a girl lol. But good luck to you gng. And also if your gut tells you this is going wrong PLEASE LISTEN TO IT and dont let your emotions fuck you over like ive done multiple times. Just give it 2 or three chances and if not working out just fuck off from it. Believe me if saves a lot of trouble. Love shouldnt feel like a burden, it should make the burden lighter