Someone once asked...

“Soo I am doing phd and I don't know there is no results Coming we live in one room one kitchen has no bachup and sometimes it's frustrationg to live with your family there taunt and my laziness is killing me I don't know what to do I tried many things to overcome my laziness but somehow everytime I am failed to do there is a consistent feeling of left out theg everyone is doing good in their life my friends working on theirs paper and will submit in one or two week but here I am dont know what to do how to do I am so confused ams frustrated with my life thag my phone became my addition because someone the reel section will forget me all this when I open it so I just scroll reela. I don't know what to do and how sometimes it's like whenever I do I will not be able to get anything”

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Someone answered with kindness...

Look, sometimes it's okayy to feel that you are left behind in life but everyone moves at their own pace and as time passes you will also find your momentum and pace. So don't compare yourself to others. You are unique because there is only one of you in the whole world. And the phone addiction you need to work on that try to stay without using your phone for 1 hour then increase it to 2 hours then slowly and gradually you'll understand that there are many more things in life than staring at a screen and comparing yourself to others.

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Another soul answered...

Hey there. First of all, stop comparing ur journey with ur friends'. U don't have to figure everything out today. Give urself the time and space to do that. Just keep showing up. Even when u fail to be consistent, show up again. Make a new plan if needed, and follow it. Take small steps, but TAKE STEPS. U ate not a failure just because u are struggling right now or confused or feeling behind. And please, don't let the label of being "lazy" become the ur identity This might sound harsh, but u are the one who has to take the first step towards changing ur situation. Put down ur phone, remind yourself why u started, and keep showing up for urself. It won't get easier or better in a day, but it WILL get better. ❤️

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