Someone once asked...

“Sometimes I feel like my friends do care about me and that I actually matter to them, but then there are moments when they make me feel like I'm unwanted or just don't belong. It's honestly confusing because one moment I feel cared for, and the next I find myself questioning if I even matter to them. I just wish I had friendships where I could feel included, valued and wanted without having to overthink everything.”

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Someone answered with kindness...

My love, I want you to know that you deserve the best. If you feel like your "friends" just make you feel unwanted, then perhaps they aren't your friends at all. I would encourage you to have deep reflection and decide if their relationship with you is worth all of this turmoil. One thing I can say for certain: I guarantee that at least one person in this world cares about you. That person is me <3. I hope this helps. Have an amazing day, friend.

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Another soul answered...

HELLO STRANGER. I WANNA SAY I CAN TOTALLY RELATE TO YOU NOT IN A WAY WHERE I WANNA COMPARE OUR TROUBLES BUT IN A WAY WE CAN HELP EACH OTHER. EVERY OTHER DAY MAKES ME QUESTION IF TRULY I WANNA BE FRIENDS WITH THEM OR IM HOLDING ONTO NOTHING. AND I EVEN ASK MYSELF IS IT WORTH UT. I REACH OUT FIRST BUT IF I DONT THEY ASSUME IM MAD AT THEM BUT THEY NEVER REACH OUT FIRST SO IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I AM FORCING MYSELF TO BE PART OF THEM. LATELY IVE BEEN TRYING TO ROMANTISIZE BEING BY MYSELF AND REALISED IM SO MUCH HAPPIER. MAYBE THAT WONT WORK FOR YOU BUT PLEASE PROTECT YOUR INNER PEACE AS THIS CAN BE SO DRAINING. SO LIVE HAPPILY WHETHER OR NOT YOURE AROUND THEM. GOOD LUCK AND DONT OVERTHINK GOOD HEALTHY AND WHOLWSOME FRIENDSHIPS WILL FIND YOU.

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