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hey i have faced the exact same thing i would suggest take a moment and start journaling start writting whatever thoughts are occuring it will give you some clarification some vision and as u said u are not feeling motivated remember what your goal is not your parents and set that aim and start working on it take small steps you dont need increase time o study little by little and trust me that comfort zone you are in is killing you killing your brain and you will realise it so start doing some stuff that challenges your brain ik its hard but trust me dont leave hope and aout your bf would say cut ties from him if he is not respecting you and u are already going through he doesnt deserve you and first focus on being the best of u then think about this relationships and all i aint saying dont ever have a bf this time if someone supports u is there for u tell him enter your life and most importantly dont issolate yourself ik giving advise is easier said than done but dont loose hope i hope it helps lots of love and power to you
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First of all, I'm so sorry about everything going on. Life can sometimes be really frustraing. I mostly wanted to write to tell you that I don't think you should continue being with your boyfriend. It sounds like the show of anger he had with you was quite violent (even if it wasn't physical), and that doesn't sound healthy at all. It can be hard to imagine, but toxic/abusive people only get worse in their relationships over time, never better, so it's better to get out now while you still can a little easily. As for the first part, life can definitely be draining. I'd say try and pick up a fun, relaxing hobby. There are plenty of things you can buy at your local dollar store for hobbies, so it doesn't have to be an expensive endeavor! Just go online, or to your library, and find some different hobbies you may want to pursue, and try them out slowly. This may help you reset from all the stresses of work and life, and can temporarily get your mind of off everything else. Taking breaks is also important, remember! I find that when I can't focus, it's mostly because I've just been working for too long. Take 5-10 minutes, walk away from all your work and all your screens, and do something else. Maybe read something, take a walk, draw something, or just lay there for a little bit. These can also help reset you. As for your parents, I don't know them, so I wouldn't know how they feel. Sometimes, we tend to put our own beliefs of ourselves onto our parents' image of us, and thing that our parents think less of us. That may be the case here, too. If it's definitely not, then I would say don't worry about your parents. This is obviously easier said than done, but your parents aren't you, and they aren't living your life. Remember that, and try not to get their words or actions get to you too much. I really hope that helped, but I'm sorry if it didn't :( Good luck <3
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I think you need to go on a solo trip and sort out your thoughts 🤔